Oasis @ Serenity Cafe'

Introducing...

Oasis LIFETIME Membership

& Now...

Oasis ACCESS Membership!

 

Having spent more than 25 years gathering the knowledge and experience helping people to grow, break out of life problems, overcome addictions and heal from the past, I feel a responsibility to make the most of the gifts God has entrusted to me. Therefore, it is my mission to make the best tools, programs, and skills in my possession available to as many people as possible. It is with this mission in mind that I have designed the Oasis @ Serenity Café to be a place where anyone, anywhere can access and use these materials to assist them on their journey of healing and wholeness. There are four major areas of focus in my mission...

Helping people to address one or any combination of the following:

• Heal the Traumatic Wounds of Childhood Abandonment (a form of PTSD)
  
• Identify and Transform the Thinking, Feeling, & Behavioral Themes of Adult/Child Syndrome
• Identify and Detoxify the Resulting Dysfunctional Relationship Patterns aka Codependency
  
• Initiate Recovery from any Addictive Processes that form the "Tip-of-the-Iceberg"
  

Furthermore, to ensure accessibility, I have made the fee for LIFETIME membership less than the cost of two therapy sessions. So, for three installments of $47.00, anyone can have Lifetime Access to the vast wealth of resources here at the Oasis. (This is an introductory rate - so I recommend signing up right away)

Here's some of what you get as a member of the Oasis ... 

Note to visitors: Any blank pages you find are accessible to Oasis Members only (sign-up below)

A Virtual Learning Environment

Virtual Learning or E-Learning

Another core function of the Oasis is to provide opportunities for personal growth and healing. People learn and grow in many different ways. So, in addition to the example presentation below, here at the Oasis we have MANY different resources to use for those ends. I will personally guide you through hundreds of hours of live webinars (and trainings for professionals).

Free to Lifetime Members - others need to pay a fee per each event:

• Virtual Classrooms
  
• Self-Paced E-Courses based upon the Thawing the Iceberg Series
• Live & recorded topic-focused webinars and workshops online
• E-Books available to read online, download to your device, or order for direct shipping
• Live, facilitated, 12-16 week coaching groups and programs based upon a course outline
• Live Question and Answer sessions on a weekly basis
  
• New presentations on a regular basis delivered with a broad range of media.
• Free email consultations (Limited to two or three per month)
  
• A HUGE database of files, worksheets, & resources available for download and personal use (not for resale)
• Several NLP & other powerful personal development exercises, programs, and presentations added weekly
• And MUCH, MUCH more!!
  

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A Private Social Community

The Oasis is primarily meant to offer visitors opportunities to connect and build relationships with others who are on a similar path. Even though we all come from different walks of life, if we grew up in less-than-nurturing families we can relate on a very deep level with each other. Below are some of the features of the Oasis that are built around this concept of community and support.

Benefits of Membership at The Oasis Community:

• Create and Edit your own Profile
• Join and create your own private groups
• Chat with other members
• Connect and collect Friends
• Create your Own Video Library
• Send & Receive Private Messages through your own internal Inbox
• Upload photos and create your own albums
• Post and maintain discussions on the activity feed

Recommendations for getting to know the Community: First of all, take your time and get used to all the features before you post a status update, photo, video, or other content to the wall so that you will learn what shows up and who can see it. (you can set each post to be viewed by public, members only, friends only, or self only) Secondly, understand that the Internet is public airways and is not designed to guarantee privacy. So until you are comfortable with the site, avoid posting anything you wouldn't want to show up on your wall. You will discover soon enough how things work as you play around with the site. Feel free to email me for technical questions.

Members Access to the Thawing the Iceberg Series

 (All eBooks & audio are downloadable and full access to the online versions)

Lifetime members of the Oasis @ Serenity Cafe' receive access to everything I have at no charge beyond the initial membership commitment of three $47 monthly installments! The books, audios, and videos listed below are valued at well over $250. The hundreds of hours of other downloads, upcoming webinars, PDF files, Videos, bonus presentations, and anything else I produce for the Oasis over the years put the value of this membership at thousands of dollars.

Thawing the Iceberg Series for Lifetime Members: 

• Downloadable PDF eBooks, worksheets, Journal exercises, etc. (in Your own personal downloads folder)
  
• Thawing Adult/Child Syndrome Online program (with Free access to live and recorded coaching sessions)
• Thawing Childhood Abandonment Online program (with Free access to live and recorded coaching sessions)
• Thawing Your Relationships Online program (with Free access to live and recorded coaching sessions)
• Thawing Your Addiction Online program (with Free access to live and recorded coaching sessions)
• All of the Audios and Videos that go with each program
  
• Everything is downloadable at no additional charge from our online file cabinet - the Oasis Extranet!

Thaw - Freedom from Frozen Feelings Amazon.com's bestsellers list for the codependency category since early in February. Thawing Adult/Child and other Codependent Patterns made the list in two weeks after its release on April 5th . I had to take a picture of them both in the top 15 at the same time!

Now Two Amazon Bestsellers in Top 15!

(May 9, 2012)

Weekly Coaching Groups, Webinars & Q&A Sessions

(Recorded & Archived on the site)

Click on the above image to checkout an example of a Presentation (Part One of Four). There will also be many other types of presentations available. For instance, we will focus quite a bit on the issues examined in the Thawing the Iceberg Series such as abandonment issues, codependency, addictions, obsessions, chronic depression, anxiety, and PTSD. And we will explore the super-sophisticated computer between your ears we now refer to as the mind-body connection.

All of the Webinars are free to Lifetime Members and significant discounts for Personal Live Coaching on any of the topics are also available to members upon request. If you are unable to attend a live event, all of them will be recorded and archived for on-demand viewing by member of the Oasis. Below are just the "tip-of-the-iceberg" of topics we will explore...

Topics & Categories for Presentations & Coaching Groups: 

• Adult/Child Syndrome
• The Five Drivers & Safety Net
• ABC's & the Figure Eight
• Disarming Your Triggers
  
• Childhood Abandonment Issues
  
• Timelining Your Personal History
  
• Relationship Mind Games vs. True Intimacy
  
• Drama Triangles & Addictive Relationships
  
• Addiction Cycles (Chemicals, Sex, Gambling, & Food)
  
• Punishment & Forgiveness Cycle
• The Recovery Wheel
• Grief & Addiction
• King Baby Syndrome - "I want what I want, when I want it!"
  
• Quieting the Inner Critic
  
• Open Loops & the Cycle of Depression
  
• Psychological Positions & the OK Corral
  
• My Heart has a Brain!
• The Seven Laws of the Inner World
• What does Agriculture have to do with growth & healing?
  
• Feelings, Emotions & the Vagus Nerve System
  
• The Seven Step Feeling Process
• Loosening Up Limiting Beliefs
• Transforming Loosened Beliefs
• The Stages of a Healthy Relationship
• "Internalizers" & "Externalizers"
• Four Elements of Effective Communication
• Perceptual Positions & Detaching with Curiosity
• Detoxify Your Communication Patterns 
  
• The Recovery Wheel & Logical levels of Change
  
• Positive Psychology & The Structure of Happiness
  
• Mental Processing & My Map of the World
• Creating Inner Harmony with Parts Work
  
• Subconscious Perception & Simple Submodality Shifts
  
• Mental Programming with Parts Work
  
• Art of Visualization & Affirmation
• Neural Linguistic Programming
• Self-Hypnosis and Other Forms of Meditation
  
• And many more!

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Oasis Event Calendar

Click the image below to go to the Calendar & keep up with the

Schedule of Events (Begins March 2012)

A Growing Library of Inspirational Videos & Motivational Programs

 Checkout the example video below

(Click the button in the lower RIGHT corner of the player to go "full screen")

A Growing Library of Meditation, Imagery, & Self-Hypnosis MP3 Audios

(Free to download)

Another major objective of the Oasis @ Serenity Cafe' is in its name... A theme you will notice over and over again here is that switching OFF the stress response by switching ON the relaxation response is REQUIRED for growth and healing to occur. Relaxation is a NECESSITY, not a luxury, even though it can be very luxurious! Case in point? Take 4 minutes to watch the video below...

Click the icon below to launch the Oasis MP3 Player.

You will notice that the Oasis Player "floats" independently from the rest of the browser. This is so you can continue to listen as you browse. You can even close down your browser completely and continue to listen to the playlist that is loaded into this instance of the Oasis Player. Check it out!

Lifetime Oasis Membership

Oasis Lifetime Membership (Terms) - $47 each month (for 3 installments only!)

Access Oasis Membership

Oasis ACCESS Membership (Terms)- $5.00 each month